16 Feb 5 Tips for Planning a Multigenerational Vacation and 4 Perfect Destinations
Going on a vacation with both your children and parents is rewarding, but the planning stage can be overwhelming. There’s pressure to make sure everyone is having a good time, and you need to consider different interests, bedtimes and mobility needs. Here’s how to plan a multigenerational vacation, plus some North American destination ideas that cater to every member of your family.
5 Tips for Planning a Multigenerational Vacation
Start With Everyone’s Non-negotiables
Before you plan anything, identify everyone’s non-negotiables. Think about dietary restrictions, mobility limitations, medical needs, and individual preferences. Is an older family member more comfortable staying near a medical center? Does someone need a quieter environment, or is there an infant traveling with you?
On a multigenerational trip, one person’s discomfort can quickly affect the entire group. Take the time to list what everyone collectively needs. This will make it easier to choose a destination, transportation and accommodation that align with those priorities.
Set Expectations Early
More families are choosing to bring three or more generations together in one vacation, with 50% of North American parents saying they would rather take a multi-gen trip than travel with just their kids, and 76% agreeing that it’s the best way to create lasting family memories.
To make sure those memories are positive, set expectations early. Talk openly about budgets, energy levels, and how much time you’ll realistically spend together. Ask grandparents whether they’d like quiet time alone or one-on-one moments with the kids, and decide if the trip should be activity-packed or more relaxed.
Choose Accommodation With Space and Flexibility
Where you stay can make or break the trip. It’s best to choose an accommodation that offers separate sleeping areas and multiple bathrooms. Make sure there are common spaces where everyone can gather, but enough room for personal space.
It’s essential to choose an accommodation that prioritizes safety and accessibility, since falls and related injuries are more common among older adults. Prioritize a vacation rental or hotel with good lighting, minimal stairs, elevators, safe walkways, and ground-floor rooms to keep all your family members safe.
Build an Itinerary with Options
Your itinerary should ideally include activities everyone can enjoy. While you want to plan time for everyone to be together, also keep in mind that not everyone will be able to do the same things all the time. For example, new parents with a baby may be unable to go out at night, while grandparents may skip more vigorous activities.
Try to keep the options open for everyone to enjoy. A cruise or resort can be great ideas for large families, as they offer a variety of activities for everyone, whether you’re looking for entertainment or relaxation.
You should also plan for down time each day of the trip so people have the opportunity to rest and enjoy some peace and quiet.
Pick a Destination That Works for Everyone
Here are some of the best options in North America for a multigenerational vacation:
San Diego, California
If a beach holiday is on your wish list, San Diego is an easy crowd-pleaser. With mild temperatures in the 60s to 80s Fahrenheit year-round, it’s comfortable for all ages. Kids will love attractions like the San Diego Zoo and SeaWorld, while adults can enjoy coastal walks and culinary explorations. Consider a glass-bottomed boat tour to Catalina Island for something everyone can enjoy together.
Orlando, Florida
Orlando welcomed over 75 million visitors in 2024 and remains the United States’ most visited destination. As the theme park capital of the world, everyone can have fun at Disney World, Universal Orlando and more parks. There are plenty of other attractions too, such as exploring the Kennedy Space Center, trying water sports, joining food tours, or visiting quirky destinations like Ripley’s Believe It or Not.
Gatlinburg, Tennessee
Rent a mountain cabin with hot tubs and game rooms near the Great Smoky Mountains, so your family can bond but still have spaces to unwind. The mountain town has many attractions, restaurants and shops to enjoy together. When you want to experience the beauty of nature, the Great Smoky Mountains National Park offers over 800 miles of hiking trails, with varying sights and difficulties.
Playa del Carmen, Mexico
If everyone has a passport, Playa del Carmen is a great destination. It has many all-inclusive resorts with activities, dining and beach access. The whole family can also explore Mayan ruins and cenotes. Many tourists choose to stay in one of the area’s all-inclusive resorts or boutique hotels.
Bringing Every Generation Together
Planning a multigenerational vacation takes a little extra effort, but the rewards are worth it. Prioritize comfort, flexibility and shared experiences to create a trip that’s fun for every member of your family.
Cora Gold is a travel writer and editor of women’s lifestyle magazine, Revivalist, where she covers destination ideas, packing tips and travel advice for women. Connect with Cora on LinkedIn, Pinterest and X.
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